Friday, October 19, 2012

When to tell the truth to a woman and why

Most of the times, when you are speaking to women, you don’t want to tell them the truth because it’s going to sound boring and totally useless; this is something we all know and understand.

However, most will never apply this and will relay on the approach of giving women their hearts and all their secrets, they are going to sound so truthful and they are going to give them the whole and true story about themselves from the first moment of meeting them.

This is not the way to talk to women and you need to understand that telling the truth when the woman is interested in you isn’t the best strategy to attract her.

Now, let’s not forget that truth telling is an obligation in some cases when you are dealing with women and if you avoid it, you are going to pay dearly for it.

The first of these situations is when the woman is accusing you of cheating on her.

Once in a while, if you are doing a great job with a woman, she is going to start feeling very jealous about you and she is going to start following your every move and even making your life hell if she suspects some crooked moves from you.

This is totally normal because we are dealing with women and it’s in their nature, however, sometimes, the woman is going to confront you about a cheating situation and she is going to accuse you directly.

He is the thing: if you start teasing her and being playful, she will understand it as this: he cheated on me and now he’s trying to cover it!

This is a bad move to do because it will lead you to direct fire from her.

The best thing you can do is to simply look her right in the eyes, take her by the hand, and then tell her the whole truth and that you didn’t cheat on her.

Don’t try to reassure her or make her understand that you love her, just tell her the truth and the whole situation, it’s much better.

The second situation when to tell a woman the whole truth is when you don’t see her much and you like her.

A lot of the times, when you are too busy with work and responsibilities, you are going to neglect your woman a little and you are going to spend more times at work than with her!

This is not good at all because women are going to think differently about this and they are going to say to themselves that you are playing games with them.

This is a good situation where it’s easier and much more effective to tell her the truth and to give her a reason for acting this way.

She may not like it, but at least she will have a clear mind about the things you are doing and why you are doing it.

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