Stand tall

One of the worst thing I’ve seen in modern men these last years is that they are unable to look at other people’s eyes !

Just try it once.

Look at someone in the eye and you will notice something very normal to most men: he will avert his eye contact and look somewhere else.

It may look like a normal thing to do, but the reality is that it’s one of the worst and most insulting thing you can do to your self-esteem and self-confidence.

A lot of men are going to feel ashamed of themselves and are going to convince themselves day in and day out that they don’t deserve good love, good things and happiness to happen to them.

They think that they are on this earth to suffer and to be redeemed for a mistake someone has done in the past!!!

It’s nonsense.

What are you afraid of?

That you are going to shine and be the best possible person to yourself?

It’s just not the main reason why men are afraid to make eye contact, another reason is that most men have been raised by their mothers, and this has been a real tragedy to most guys.

They were not raised by their fathers, just by the mothers.

In the seventies, eighties and nineties, the trend of divorces and split ups have been really difficulct and very strong, most marriages nowadays are going to end up in a divorce and most relationships are not going to last more than six months.

It’s a really tragedy that has been hitting men more than women.

A woman can’t raise a man, only a man can raise a man.

If a woman raises a man, he will be weak and behaving like a woman, it’s very strange, but it’s the reality, I’ve seen it happening to every man I know who was raised by his mother.

Don’t think of yourself as lacking something or as not enough, think of yourself as the best man possible, the man who is going to be proud of himself and what he’s going to do.