Wednesday, February 22, 2012

The fifth element of confidence

The fifth element of confidence is choosing your image.

Let’s say that you have the chance of meeting Leonardo da Vinci, the master painter.

He has granted you an image her would draw of yourself, but on one condition, you have to guide him and show him what to draw, in other words, he won’t draw from your portrait, he will lonely draw from your description of yourself.

How would you describe yourself?

Ugly or handsome, attractive or repulsive?

You may say right now that you are going to probably give him something great about you and only the good feature, but in reality, most low self-confidence people are going to focus on the negative and only on the stuff that will make them look as ugly.

If you’d like to become self-confident, you need to start imagining a more interesting and attractive you.

If you do all the previous steps and elements, but forgot to implement this one, you are going to as weak and very low self-esteem.

The question is how you can install a positive self-image in your mind, a great self-image of a more attractive you?

The answer is by imagining it.

You imagine who you want to be and become the person you are and the features you want this person to have.

It’s a very challenging step, but you have to do it and you have to do it soon.

Here is what you are going to need:

A pen and paper.

You start by writing on the top of a piece of paper this title: who am i?

Then you start to write the features you want to have and possess.

Write a minimum of twenty features, they all have to be extremely positive and true to yourself.

For example, you can’t be a short guy and write in your features, “I’m a two meters guy”, no, you can’t, you have to be true to yourself and to write only what accurate.

If you allow these five elements to guide you and to be a part of you, you are going to become one of the most attractive and self-confident man around, you won’t believe the amount of success you are going to reach and you can’t believe the amount of joy this will add to your life.

Good luck and bye bye.

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