Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Confidence is being alive



What does the word confidence means to you?

To most men, it will mean meeting lots of women and having a great relationship with one and to most women, self-confidence will mean being able to stand for themselves.

I have a totally different oppinion for the word confidence and its meaning.

What you need to know is that they things described as the meaning of the word confidence are just outcomes, they are not descriptions or definitions of confidence, they are outcomes people want from becoming confidence.

My definition of confidence is: being alive and being true about whom you are.

I’ve watched the other day an episode of a soap opera, the protagonist, female, was reading a book on dating, she was going to meet a man later on that evening.

She was nervous and was relaying heavily on that book tips.

When she meets the man, he invited her to a movie, she accompanied him and before going to the movie, they went to eat something.

The woman satt as indicated by the book, and discussed only subjects indicated in her dating book, soon she was making a scene out of herself and was looking horrible and crazy like.

Then, the man gets a little upset and feels cheated; she doesn’t appear as when he first met her.

The woman, having realized that the book isn’t helping much, looked the man in the eyes and said: “I’d like to say something, I’ve been reading from this stupid book all day long”

And then she putted it aside, called the waiter and asked for some fries!

The man was very impressed and he started laughing, she laughed too and soon, they decided to take a walk and not see the movie.

This is a true act of self-confidence.

Self-confidence to me is becoming a human, daring and being able to know where you are going and what you need to achieve what you want in life.

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