Do you have to be confident?

It’s a question I asked myself a lot of times and to which could only find one answer:

It depends!

It depends on what you want to achieve and what you need to have in your life.

If you already have got a nice steady job, isn’t interested in having a family or friends, think that you are totally satisfied with your life, then there is no need for self-confidence, however, if you find that you lack an exciting life and you are truly ambitious and you would like to have a good influence on the people near you, then you need to start becoming confident, it’s the only way for you to achieve all these.

Once I’ve read that the average person lives in total sleep walking.

At first, I didn’t understand this, but after some few rereading, I started noticing and knowing what the author was talking about.

Most of us are on autopilot mod, we are zombies, we are looking all day long to feed ourselves and to fulfill our natural drives.

Of course, you should think like this, but the average person will always think that these are the most essential things and he will be all the time looking for security versus living well and changing his condition.

I’ve once read that three out of five marriages will end in divorce and tow out of three marriages that didn’t end in divorce, the partners were living unhappy and unfulfilled.

It’s true and these people have one thing in common, they lack the confidence to say stop and to leave the relationship, they are only interested in security and being with a man or a woman, no need to ask for more.

Don’t be like them, dare to ask for more from life, it’s the way out of monotony and being like the others.