Friday, January 20, 2012

How to tell if a woman is lying to you



You can’t be serious about meeting women and dating them if you didn’t think about this thing before: women lie a lot and they are very good at it.

Unless you want to be laughed about all the time, you better need to find a way to uncover their lies and know how to avoid them in the first place.
  • Here is the first sign a woman is lying to you: it’s in her body language.
Body language is a communication way that never lies.

Mae sure you get this.

When you see that a woman isn’t congruent in her body language, this will mean that she is lying to you.

Let me give you a small example: when the woman is talking to you and she looks your right in the eyes and tell you something and then look away, this will definitely mean that she is just lying to you and making you a fool.

This one thing will never lie, try to remember this.
  • The next body language to watch for is when she is talking to you and not looking at your eyes at all.
Guess what: she is lying again.

Not looking at you is a way of telling you that she can’t face you and that she is terribly uncomfortable about it.

You will need to understand these two signs and be quick at interpreting them.

The other way to tell if a woman is lying to you is by knowing her background a little bit.

You need to be a good investigator sometimes with women.

Here is the thing you need to be looking for: has she ever lied to you about small things?

My previous girlfriend would always lie to me about why she came late to a date, why she didn’t answer the phone …..

This was a clear sign that lying was a second nature to her.

When she looked at my eyes one night and told me that she was using pills, I knew she was lying and this prevented me from having a unwanted pregnancy and getting stuck with her.

Soon, I dumped her!

This can be a great way too, by all means use it a lot.

The other thing is how to prevent her from lying to you?

Let me give you this little joke: how can a shrink change a light bulb: the bulb needs first to want to change!

This means in our context that if the girl is ok with her lying and she maybe even enjoying it, then you will never succeed.

If however, she is scared she might lose you and lying is her way to keep you around her, you will simply look her right in the eyes and tell her that if she lied again to you, this mean the end of the relationship, and please, be serious about it and end it if she does it.

You will also need to reinforce her positive actions.

For example, if you confronted her and she acknowledged something she did, don’t make a scene about it if it’s nothing, simply hug her and tell her that you thank her for telling you the truth and move on.

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