Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Am i attractive to women?

Am i attractive to women?

Whenever I get this question asked from other men: am I attractive to women? The first thing that comes to my mind is one thing a woman said to me in the past: "all guys are attractive; those who don't know it are the most unattractive".

First, a look at this video:


This is why I'm going to reveal you in this post how all guys are going to be attractive to women if they have and apply two simple traits and strategies to their lives.

Am I Attractive to women?

The answer is yes, all guys are attractive to women, however if you don't apply these two traits, I'm sure that most women are going to find you very boring and very unattractive.

The first trait is how you deal with yourself.

Did you know this: women are attracted to guys who are attracted to themselves!

By this I don't mean some horrible things or some weird things guys might be doing to themselves, no, what I mean is guys who have got high self-esteem.

Because there is one thing women respect in guys, it's having a very high self-esteem and knowing that they are worth it, they are the best for her, and that they would make a woman very happy and very fulfilled to be with h.

When you go meet women, before asking yourself am I attractive to women? First ask yourself : am I thinking of myself as a great guy? Am I thinking of myself as the best for her? Am I seeing myself as worth having happiness in my life?

By asking these questions you are going to know exactly whether you have got high self-esteem or low self-esteem.

I would advise you if you have got low self-esteem to get yourself a great book called: honoring the self by Nathaniel Brandon, it's the most effective book to dealing with low self-esteem.

The second trait women are looking for in attractive man is not self-confidence but assurance and presence.

By assurance I mean a guy who is sure of himself and who knows that he can be a great catch for a woman, this is different from having high self-esteem, it will mean one thing: a guy is having certain traits that women are going to like.

By those traits I mean: funny, good looking, knows how to listen, is present when a woman is with him, a leader.

When you have got these traits, you will find that most women are going to be attracted to you and that you don't have to ask yourself: am I attractive to women? Because all women are going to be attracted to you no matter what you do or what you say to them then.

Try to watch the following video:

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